There’s a phrase from the Randy Travis song, “Three Wooden Crosses” that goes, “It’s not what you take when you leave this world behind you, it’s what you leave behind you when you go!”
I couldn’t help thinking about that message since learning of the passing on Monday of Herb Bigley — who was easily one of the most giving people that God ever placed on this Earth.
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